William Appleton, author of a recent book entitled Fathers and Daughters, believes that it

is a woman's relationship with her father (1)_____ decides how successful she will be in her (2)_____ life. According to Appleton there are three important steps a girl must (3)_____ in her relationship with Daddy.

The (4)_____ is the "little girl" stage in which the daughter loves and idolizes her father (5)_____ he were a god or hero without (6)_____ And her father loves his daughter (7)_____ blindly, seeing her as an "oasis of smiles" in a hard, cold world. Then comes the second stage. It starts during adolescence and (8)_____ for many years. Here, the little girl begins to rebel against Daddy and (9)_____ his authority. He reacts with anger and (10)_____

And the final stage comes (11)_____ a woman reaches the age of about thirty. At this time, the daughter sees her father not-as a hero (12)_____ as a fool, but learns to accept him (13)_____ he is, for better or worse. And Daddy forgives her, too, for not being the (14)_____ little girl he had once hoped for.

But not all daughters go through all three stages, and it is here that the key to a woman's career (15)_____. Those girls who never get past the first "oasis of smiles" stage, (16)_____ all their lives seek out their fathers' love and approval, will never (17)_____ in the business world. They will remain at the secretarial (18)_____ all their lives.

It is only those women who get to the final stage, those who (19)_____ and accept Daddy's faults, who can even hope to be (20)_____ enough and independent enough to become a candidate for top-management.

A．who

B．which

C．that

D．it